I'm not personally a fan of Black Friday, but if you choose to brave the chaos, here are some tricks to get the most out of it:

• Skip the door busters - chances are, someone else wants it more and will plan accordingly.
• Make a list of the people you need to shop for including any gifts you've already determined, but also types of gifts you're considering.
• Check Black Friday ads to see if offers will also be online - you might be able to check a few things off your list from the comfort of your couch!
• Focus on your higher ticket items like gadgets, shoes, coats, etc.
• Return policies are key. If you are on the fence about something on special and the store has a full refund within 30 days or more return policy, take it home and think about it.

Here are some key things to look for when evaluating whether or not to submit your order:

• Don't get caught up on the term "Monday" - Cyber Monday specials usually start Friday, if not earlier.
• Coupon code discounts - if it's not at least 25% off, keep looking and be skeptical of percentage discounts on "select items" - it's a fancy phrase for "sale."
• Compare similar shops before you order and don't be afraid to ask a retailer you prefer to shop at for a price match.
• Free shipping as a Cyber Monday special isn't so special anymore - it's something you should expect from online retailers throughout the holiday season.

Enjoy Cyber Monday type deals outside from your phone throughout the holiday season courtesy of applications from these savvy sale shops:

• Groupon- I bought a stocking stuffer via through the mobile application earlier this week!
• Rue La La - They save a lot of their best sales for this weekend. I'm all over the Holiday Dash and Hanky Panky; both this Friday!
• Hautelook - Check this for gifts - they have a good mix for different people on your list.
• Gilt - Keep an eye on their special Holiday Shops!
• Living Social - I haven't used this yet, but downloaded the application, which lets you know when new deals are near your location.

Stellar Black Friday Discounts:

• Target:View all the offerings here.
• GAP: 50% off all purchases Friday between 12am and 10am
• Neiman Marcus Last Call: 40% off now with additional 20% savings starting Friday
• Walmart, Sears and Costco also have nice offerings...

Cyber Monday Picks:

• Amazon: Consistently great deals on gadgets every year.
• Hudson Jeans: Hosting a 24 hour VIP 40% off sale exclusive to Facebook fans Monday here!
• Shopbop: Savings start at $50 off $250 plus 20% off hot new items.
• SPUN: Spend $100 and get a free beater tank. Just enter code CLUTCH22 on Monday.

If you want to do some of your own research for these shopping holidays, check out some of these sites:

• RetailMeNot.com
• Slick Deals
• Budgets Are Sexy
• The Purse Forum Deals and Steals
• Grechen's Codes